A Question:

11 Responses to “A Question:”

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   Revathy August 18, 2010 at 7:32 am #

   Hey OJ! 🙂

   Long time! I think most of the time, it is state of the relationship and then the heart!
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   Kavana August 18, 2010 at 10:22 am #

   I’d say relationship, since it necessarily involves the other person’s state as well.
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   errormsg! August 18, 2010 at 3:17 pm #

   for me, always the relationship.
   the heart is too lazy to forget 😉
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   M..... August 18, 2010 at 8:39 pm #

   One would hope(?) twas the heart, but alas it always is the relationship.
   Letting a not so great thing go is surprisingly difficult! 😉
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   Aunty G August 19, 2010 at 12:21 am #

   To you too!
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   sukanya August 19, 2010 at 1:59 am #

   happy Parsi new year…stuff some extra mithais for me too!

   re: your question: i would agree with the other commenters-first the relationship then the heart. healing a broken heart has always been a long and somewhat tedious road for me!
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   Roxana August 19, 2010 at 9:57 am #

   The relationship. The heart takes forever! 🙂
   Happy new year. Lots of lagan nu custard to you. (I don’t even know if you guys make that at New year. Is there a good book on Parsi food you would recommend? I have been looking but yet to find something that is more than just a simple cookbook. 😦 )
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   Orange Jammies August 19, 2010 at 11:16 am #

   Everyone: 🙂 Wow, we’re all hangers-on, aren’t we? But looking around, I do know that the love dies in some relationships that go on forever. Maybe not “dies”. Morphs. Here’s to a closer match! And thanks for the wishes, people. 🙂

   Roxana: Katy Dalal’s ‘Jamva Chalo Ji’. Strongly recommend it.
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   Zahra August 25, 2010 at 10:26 pm #

   Hi 🙂 At the risk of sounding repetitive, my vote’s for the relationship…..the heart takes longer to let go.

   Belated New year wishes!! 🙂
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    Orange Jammies August 31, 2010 at 12:01 am #

    Zahra: Thank you! 🙂 You have a beautiful name.
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    Zahra September 2, 2010 at 10:04 pm #

    Thank you!! 🙂