Long before there was Sex and the City, urban landscapes unleashed their siren calls to populations, who, glazed-eyed and entranced, followed trails of grit and dust toward the lure of money, a life of relative anonymity and the opportunity to reconstruct their history. Cities, those giant sprawls of architecture, social alchemy and the human narrative, were levelers and dividers in equal measure; entities that made humans offer their sweat and spirit in return for bestowing on them the gratitude of belonging. Cities were power centers, hubs of every cog in the wheel of humanity, save perhaps, agriculture and animal husbandry, and legions of our race responded willingly, increasingly, and near-slavishly to the piper’s call, as the 19th century played host to this giant global phenomenon—the rise of the heterogeneous, indifferent-to-differences metropolis, where you were as worthy as your last contribution.
The world over, cities became shrines to human endeavor. To dreams, to plans, to architects of destiny. Throbbing, expanded versions of village squares and coffee houses, they became repositories of social dialogue, justice movements, and battlegrounds for human rights. As decades hurtled forward, they turned into hubs of industry, agents of rewritten reality, organic farms of political thought and social sub-institutions. Cities, these nuclei of power and vibrancy, were only as strong as their denizens, and it is here that the human spirit rose to meet the challenge of morphing a maze of streets into megapolises of learning, expansion and culture.
Developing at different paces, cities found their niche. Their size and demand based on what they had to offer, cities became the textbook examples of macroeconomics and cultural anthropology. A majority of them operate in a blinding vortex of speed and urgency and the Next Big Thing. They pulse with things to do and targets to achieve. Entertainment is measured, pre-slotted, with chunks of time dispensed toward preserving sanity, lest existential angst get out of hand and run amok amidst our overloaded mental circuitry.
And yet, few complain. For the City is a charmer. A seductress. A deceiver. And we willingly succumb to its wiles for what it throws our way. In eliminating our uniqueness and personal history, the City invites us to belong. In disregarding our past and turning a blind eye to social strata, it allows us to blend in. It acts as Provider. Protector. Benefactor. With a dark and ugly side that we choose to take in our stride. It smiles non-committally when you call it Home. It shares its bounty ungrudgingly. To the winner go the spoils, and someday that might even be you. You can partake of its history and cloak it as your own. You believe in its script and mouth its lines earnestly. You are of its culture. Of its space. Of its zeitgeist. You give and receive and don’t keep score. You may be among its earliest settlers, or a train dropped you off just yesterday, in a city, a sliver of space can always be yours, simply because you become that space, one of the headcount, you are, you exist, and living is not denied.
Without its montage, I cannot see my own existence, identify the entity that is me. Some may consider it a curse, but it is a trade-off I am extremely comfortable making. Without the City, I am contextless. Without the City, I am half a soul. Being born into the City and born of it, we are forged. For better or worse, richer or poorer, Home or half-spaces, without the City, there is no me. Cities distort the concept of Home. Wring it and hang it out to dry. You find it in yourself to belong to another. Fully in some, half-heartedly in others. Cities make your identity easy to whore. Today, it’s this one; tomorrow, another. Even amidst their extreme difference, you find yourself able to negotiate space and identity, and that is the ultimate gift of being of the City.
Wisdom Wears Neon Pyjamas 
Amen. I am nothing if not a walking ghost-town abandoned in peripheries of her City. I would question existential angst being muffled in the City though — in that moment when the sticky sweetness of street vendor Nuts for Nuts is overpowered by central park dung, no where can you feel as insignificant, alone and temporary as a bustling City.
Ok, never mind me — I still giggle every time I hear “animal husbandry”.
Null Pointer: Oh but cities actually cultivate angst, farm it, and then leave us with too much to do to pay it any mind. Kindness, never one of its strengths.
Can’t think of anything to say
Each city holds it’s own sway
But i understand your feeling
Secunderabad sets ME reeling
Oh! So there! Ultimately, i did bray!
Aunty G: Tell us more about your city
Is it small? Is it pretty?
Whatever you say
And whichever way
It’s bound to be pithy
The Twin Cities are vast
With Cantonments from the past
Hyderabad has history
Secunderabad mystery
And both have MNC-ITs and a University stone-cast!
Aunty G: Now I must see,
Each glorious city,
Both sound good,
Especially the food,
And you got me at history!
I’ve lived in cities, big and small.
And also in a very small town
So very small
that I felt I couldn’t fit into it
despite all the space and fields around
my soul craved a city…..
Any city, I’ll befriend it,
survive happily,
with or without language skills,
I’ll manage.
Green spaces within a city
total bliss!
dipali55: 🙂 Then you must love the Maidan! I know I did. Especially with the stunning Victoria Memorial at one end of it.
Oh yes, oh yes! It’s a magical space within my city!